The Beauty Bandwagon

by Rick Beckman on June 29, 02008

I also believe, on a spir­i­tual level, that a Lov­ing God wants to per­fect His cre­ation, and by hop­ping on the beauty band­wagon I am essen­tially declar­ing my grat­i­tude for this life and try­ing to “win one for the (Big) Gip­per”. If God wanted me to be a purely spir­i­tual and/or men­tal being, He could have kept me in gas form, but He did NOT, and that is a whop­ping mes­sage right there. While in this body, I intend to max out on the (good) things a body can do. It is such a priv­i­lege to be alive, and I want to look the part! — Hol­lis

That kind of think­ing is what hap­pens when beauty becomes an idol. If you really want to know what God thinks about out­ward beauty, He doesn’t keep it a secret (Proverbs 31:30):

Beauty is vain.

I don’t think a stronger word could be used. Van­ity car­ries with it the ideas of fool­ish­ness, empti­ness, use­less­ness, fruit­less­ness, and worth­less­ness. Beauty is all of those things, and in Proverbs 31:30, it is con­trasted with fear­ing the Lord.

In other words, it seems fairly appar­ent that if you are “hop­ping on the beauty band­wagon,” you are hop­ping off the “fear­ing the Lord” band­wagon, and that is not a posi­tion in which any­one should want to be.

The con­text of the above quote from Hol­lis is a post ask­ing why women want to appear younger. My answer to that is because peo­ple are, well, vain crea­tures, but I wanted to point out some­thing else.

While it could be argued that grow­ing old is a side effect of our sin­ful nature, grow­ing old is some­thing to be admired. The­o­ret­i­cally, as you grow old, you grow in wis­dom. You grow in matu­rity. These are aspects which are to be admired and respected. I like what Proverbs 16:31 says: “Gray hair is a crown of glory.”

Plenty of peo­ple — both men and women — dye their hair to hide gray­ing; I sub­mit that if God declares gray hair to be a crown of glory, then hid­ing it or oth­er­wise being ashamed of it reveals our atti­tude toward God.

Also, while God is in the busi­ness of per­fect­ing believ­ers, you will note through­out the Bible this per­fec­tion is always related to good, right­eous works, not in appearance.

Keep in mind that God, when He took on flesh, had no beauty in Him. He was an every­man and He looked the part. He did this in obe­di­ence to the Father. Like­wise, in obe­di­ence and good works, He under­went bru­tal beat­ings and the cru­ci­fix­ion, which dis­fig­ured Him to an unrec­og­niz­able state. If God is in the busi­ness of mak­ing us pretty, then the Incar­na­tion seems to have gone totally awry.

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christine June 29, 2008 at 17:39

Your thinking is very clear. I wonder if you distinguish makeup from plastic surgery? I presume not based on your comments about hair dye.
I ask because I find it a difficult distinction myself. Though I don’t approach it from a religious perspective, why do I wear makeup but find plastic surgery extreme or excessive? I feel that I am holding an opinion that I can’t defend, except to say “Well, it’s just the way I am”. It really is all vanity.

Rick Beckman June 29, 2008 at 18:03

christine: Thanks for the comment, Christine.

Do I distinguish makeup from plastic surgery? Yes.

My position is a little difficult to describe.

I start out with biblical principles. These are diverse and include (1) Beauty is vain, (2) Men should have short hair & women should have long hair, (3) women should adorn themselves modestly rather than with fancy, expensive clothes and jewelry.

I’m sure there are many more principles, but those are the three that come to mind which are relevant to the subject.

I won’t say “Women must only do this” or “People cannot dye their hair” or “Tattoos are evil” or anything like that. Whenever a person starts making absolute statements like that which are not found in the Bible, they are treading dangerous ground.

Instead, I believe that the principles are there to guide us to make right decisions. As people grow in spiritual maturity, their understanding of and obedience to these principles will grow.

But for the most part, it comes back to the attitude of the heart. Dying hair to cover up gray contrasts with God calling gray hair a glory. Therefore, I think the principle is that gray hair shouldn’t be hidden. Does that mean a blond cannot dye their hair red? I don’t think so, but that bumps into other principles: What is the motive behind dying the hair? Is it one of beauty? God said beauty is worthless, but if that’s how you want to live your life, go for it.

Ultimately it all comes down to two principles:

(1) Everything we do should be done for the glory of God. If I’m doing what I can to draw attention to myself without ensuring that I’m redirecting people’s attention to God, then I am in the wrong.

(2) Where our hearts are, there our treasure is also. If “the beauty bandwagon” — or video games or movies or music or novels or whatever — is where our hearts are, then that is where our reward is. It will be all we have in this life, and it will not benefit us at all in the next.

I’m convinced each person will respond to these principles differently — God did, after all, make us unique. I know dedicated Christians who have and are happy with tattoos. I know dedicated Christians who think they look ridiculous. Both groups can fall into the wrong (either by glorying too much in the tattoo or in judging others by whether or not they have them), and the same can be said about many other things: makeup or not? hair dye or no? red shirt or blue? and so on.

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